A man who has been single for a long time will inevitably have some problems, some of which are physical and some of which are psychological. Today we will discuss the psychological problems that a man will have if he has been single for a long time.
1. Fall in love with the person you imagine
Whether you are single or It doesn’t matter if I haven’t been in love for a long time. If I ask you, what is your ideal type?
Let’s take the simplest one. If you say, gentle, so good, gentle. There are indeed many girls, but how long can they be gentle?
When you have been with her for a long time and her true side is exposed, what will you do? Accept the reality or say goodbye? You will doubt yourself, has society changed or am I too demanding?
In short, whether you have goals or no goals, you have searched and waited, and you have indeed loved so much. one person.
What is this person’s name? He doesn’t exist.
2. You will lose the ability to love
Maybe you have friction with the person you are romantically interested in and encounter some problems. Difficulty, you will immediately think in your mind: I would rather lack than waste, I will not associate with her, the next one will be better.
It seems very efficient, but in fact your process is just, encounter, give up, encounter, give up, have you found anything? This is an endless loop.
Shouldn’t the normal process be to meet, run in, successfully run in, get together, or meet, run in, fail to run in, give up?
Others are at this stage of running in, there are many After finding a bright road to being single, you found a dead end for yourself and turned back and forth.
Someone said, I am just protecting myself, don’t you always say that people should love themselves first?
If you don’t make excuses like this, what kind of person are you? Love yourself, you are just coddling yourself.
As time goes by, even if one day you really meet that perfect person, do you know how to get along? Do you know how to manage relationships? Do you know how to comfort people?
You At most, he can say: Hello, you are the person you are looking for, let’s be together. Then someone else said: Are you sick?
Your story ends successfully here. Moreover, this is not a story, this is a fact.
3. Fear of making mistakes and not being able to suffer losses
As the old saying goes, one learns from each experience. If you don’t suffer losses, don’t try and make mistakes, and just think about yourself, how would you know what you really want?
How would you know how naive your original imagination was??
I don’t know how many people have been in front of the screen. Can you share your own experiences? Are all your exes or your current one actually completely different from the person you first imagined? Same?
It’s not terrible to suffer losses in love. What do you think there is to lose?
