Two-way secret love is actually a state in which both parties like each other, but dare not take the initiative to confess. I believe many people have experienced the feeling of two-way secret love. So what should you do when you find yourself in a two-way secret love? How to break this state?
1. How to break a two-way secret love
If the fate between two people is deep, when getting along When you meet, you will feel very relaxed and happy. Maybe two people will encounter traps when they meet for the first time. This is also inevitable, but in future interactions, two people will find that there will be more problems between them. We have a common topic and are so happy to get along with each other.
When getting along, you can constantly discover each other's strengths. You must know that no one is perfect, but each of us will definitely have our own strengths. Maybe the strengths of two people can complement each other.
Fate seems to allow two people to respect each other and allow their other half’s personal space to be respected. In fact, this method is also the secret to keeping the love between two people fresh.
2. Five characteristics of two-way crush
1. Jealousy of each other
Secret love will make people cautious and worry about gains and losses. They will feel jealous when they see them chatting with the opposite sex, seeing them smiling at the opposite sex, or seeing them getting closer to the opposite sex.
The secret love is like this, but the secret love for each other is even worse. The two people are jealous of each other. But he didn’t dare to tell the other person not to get close to other people of the opposite sex, so he was silently anxious in his heart and was hostile to other people of the opposite sex around him.
2. Look at each other secretly
In fact, every time you look at him, he will know it, because he is also looking at you. Sometimes two people can be very childish, obviously looking at each other, but still staring at each other.
3. Afraid of the other person knowing
As mentioned before, secret love makes people worry about gains and losses. Sometimes, if you like the other person, If you do too much, you are afraid that the other person will know; if you do too little, you are afraid that he or she will not know. When you have a crush on someone, you are always worried that they will find out and then reject you. So the two people are always testing each other, but they dare not go further.
4. Deceiving yourself
Always tell yourself that he is not the best, so stop thinking about him. I will meet a more suitable boy/girl in the future, and he/she will also find his/her own happiness. This is also the reason why mutual crushes lead to tragedy. Because they are afraid, they lie to themselves.
5. Waiting for the other person to confess his love
I know you like me, and I will be with you when you confess your love. Usually girls will think that if a boy likes her, he will take the initiative to confess; boys will miss her and this expression is not enough.Obviously, we may have to wait a little longer.
