I believe everyone wants to know what to say after adding a girl to WeChat. Sometimes girls reply a few words and then start to say nothing, or simply don't reply. This behavior of girls is very hurtful. So when you first add a girl to WeChat, what should you say in your opening remarks?
Be sure not to ask girls "you" "How old are you?", "Where do you work?", "What's your name?" If I were a girl, I would ignore you. When chatting with girls, you must pay attention to two points: 1. Be casual and do not reveal your purpose; 2. Have your own style and characteristics.
When you first meet a girl, the first thing you should do is not to contact her frequently, but to establish a sense of security in front of her, test her attitude towards you, and present yourself to the fullest so that she can feel good about you. A basic understanding is that you must not spread negative energy information in your circle of friends, otherwise girls will have a bad first impression of you and think your life is also negative.
Everyone should remember that the purpose of chatting is to test the girl’s attitude and create a sense of security. This sense of security is not the solid feeling of love, but to make her trust you.
The first type: start with a nice nickname
Girls like cute names, such as baby, fairy and so on. They like to call themselves my baby and my fairy. You can follow her words and discover a little cutie or a little fairy, which will bring you closer in an instant. I feel that you are the kind of person who is very natural, has no purpose, and can talk well
The second type: start with emoticons
Don’t directly use the title “baby, darling, wife” In the beginning, she will think you are acting like a gangster. How can you start chatting like this? Girls will think you are too casual and not serious. A girl wants a man's respect more than his liking for her, so you must respect her first
But you can use kissing emoticons, any cute ones will do, so that your needs will not be exposed, even if the girl is very If you are disgusted, you can also treat it as a joke, and the emoji is innocent.
The third type: mysterious opening
The opening must show your uniqueness and be different from other men’s. Others say hello, hello, but yours is "Wow, how did you do that?"
Girls must be very curious, and then they will ask you what you said, and then you say: "How did you do that like a fairy?" Girls I'd be very happy to hear you say that. This kind of curiosity + compliment opening can easily capture the hearts of girls.
Fourth: Use her Moments
You can intercept photos and comments from her Moments, and then message her privately. Girls care about other people's opinions and say nice things, such as taking screenshots of her funny Moments and saying "I like how cute you are." When you are chatting with her, you must show your high value. This is completely different from saying "you look so cute". The former is the king.The latter is bronze.
When you first meet a girl, the opening remarks are the most important. You can have no success, but you must not make mistakes. After you finish your opening remarks, pay attention to the girl's attitude. If she responds well, you can deepen your understanding; if she has a cold attitude, don't continue to pester her. The impression in her mind must be changed.
