It is said that talking about money hurts feelings. Let alone outsiders, even your own girlfriend will feel uncomfortable with it. And if you meet a girlfriend who always asks for money, you may wonder if your girlfriend is using her as a cash machine and throwing it away after use. Let me analyze for you the psychology of your girlfriend always asking for money and see if your girlfriend loves you or your money.
1. Treat you as a cash machine
Some girls just want to find a cash machine when they fall in love, want to buy expensive cosmetics, want to buy beautiful bags and clothes, but I don’t have the financial strength to afford it. I don’t want to make money to buy it myself. Instead, I want to find a boyfriend and ask him for money to buy it. I ask for it without considering my boyfriend’s feelings. If I don’t give it, I will say that my boyfriend is stingy and break up. ...Such a girlfriend is just vain, to put it bluntly, and doesn't talk about feelings! He who usually ignores you will talk to you softly and be extremely enthusiastic when he wants to buy something and pay for it.
2. Feeling that asking for money from your boyfriend is natural
Some girls feel comfortable being with boys Once we are together, your boyfriend is yours, so your boyfriend's money should also be yours. Such a girlfriend needs to reach out to her boyfriend for money for all kinds of daily necessities. She feels like she is the empress dowager after finding a boyfriend, and her boyfriend should provide the money. When dealing with such a girl, you can persuade her to have her own life, slowly helping her find her life goal.
3. Love her only if you are willing to give her money
Some girls are extremely insecure. 2. The way to satisfy her sense of security is to let her boyfriend spend money on her. Such girls feel that only money can help them feel whether the other person loves me. "If he doesn't spend money for me, he doesn't love me. It's not that I can't afford it myself. Why should I spend money myself when I'm in a relationship?" fallacy, thought Twisted, as a good boyfriend, you can care more about her behavior and don't let her develop such a habit, "I love you when I give gifts, but I don't love you usually!"
Finally, a piece of advice for boys, please don’t slap your face and pretend to be fat when you do anything. When you fall in love, you must find the value in your relationship, not because you have something. Money or no money, the other party will love you/not love you. Although money is important in life, it is not the measure of everything!
As for girls, put yourself in the shoes of the people around you from a realistic perspective. At the same time, you must have a stable income of your own that can provide for your daily life and allow you to have dignity in your relationship. Unless someone else gives it to you, if you take the initiative to ask for something from others, it will always be spent and not so enjoyable!
Emotions pursue equality. Only if you can see the other person’s equal value can you have the qualification to ask for it from the other person.Take, although you are enjoying the good things of the other person at the moment, the love that is only harvested without giving will eventually break up.
