If you want something, make yourself worthy of it. ——Charlie Munger
The most helpless thing for a man is to meet the girl he wants to take care of for the rest of his life at the age when he is most powerless.
If you love, say it boldly! Confess to your beloved, as long as there is love, you can be together forever.
But what is the reality?
During holidays, gifts (money)
On weekends, we go out to play, eat delicious food, and watch movies (money)
When there is a conflict, you need to coax (money)
Opening/renting a house (money)
In order to maintain continued attraction to your partner, you need to pay more attention to your appearance (makeup) , fitness) investment (money)
Even when there is an unexpected pregnancy, poor men do not have the financial ability to raise the next generation.
It is a pain to have something that exceeds your ability. If you do not have the financial ability to fall in love, then your love experience is destined to be difficult.
A man’s material foundation determines how interesting, tasteful and knowledgeable he is.
A man who is busy making a living every day cannot become more interesting.
When a woman feels that the areas that a man can explore for her are becoming fewer and fewer or even being overpowered, in most cases they will break up.
Men who have invested money, time, energy, and feelings will get nothing except a brief happy time, and the same goes for women. In addition, women cannot afford to wait, because the blooming youth of women is very short-lived.
From another perspective, a man always wants to wait until I make a lot of money and become rich, then I will be with you and then marry you. But in the end, as the years went by, the girl finally got married in a hurry under the constant urging of her family, and he has been living in his own regret.
From this point of view, when a man is poor, it is wrong to fall in love or not to fall in love.
Perhaps you can be a real man if you face your own desires, strengthen your abilities, and fight for them.
