When many boys are chasing girls, they are prone to the illusion that "she likes me", so they try every means to guess the girl's inner thoughts. But in fact, if you want to know whether a girl likes you, you don't have to guess at all. , if you want to judge whether a girl likes you, just look at these 4 details.
1. Judge based on the chat content
If the chat content mostly revolves around you, you want Find out your interests, what you like, cater to you, not to mention liking you, at least they are interested in you.
And if you are always talking about yourself, expressing your emotions, venting your unhappiness, and not caring about your expression, then most likely you are just an emotional trash can.
2. Judge based on the frequency of replies
Judge whether a girl likes you by her reply to your message The frequency is easy to judge.
A girl who likes you says she went to take a shower and will continue chatting with you after taking a shower, while a girl who doesn’t like you seems like she can’t get out.
Because she doesn’t like you, so she is always busy, always inconvenient to talk, and always goes to take a shower.
A girl who really likes you will usually respond to your messages instantly because she is looking forward to communicating with you.
3. Judgment based on body language
Think back to those youth campus movies, when the male and female protagonists are together , does the heroine always like to look at the ground, her eyes don’t know where to focus, and she hesitates to speak.
When a girl has a boy she likes, in order to catch the boy’s attention, the girl will pay more attention to her appearance and dress up.
For example, when facing a boy you like, you will unconsciously fiddle with your hair, and you will also deliberately make some "careful things" in your clothes.
Just like, extroverts are introverts in front of you, while introverts are extroverts in front of you. Nervous, but wanting to get closer.
German behavioral psychologist Peter pointed out that some behaviors that one is not aware of can reflect people's instinctive needs and desires.
So, when a girl behaves like the above, she probably likes you!
4. Judging based on the degree of initiative
Most girls are afraid of being too obvious, so they usually make an invitation to you when they take action.
This invitation often has certain “legitimate reasons.
” For example, a girl will askAsk you about academic problems, ask you to go to the library together, study together, and read books together; or make an excuse to say that the water pipe at home is broken and ask you to come over to help her, and create opportunities for the two of you to be alone together;
Or, she can use the excuse that one of her male friends is having a birthday and she doesn’t know what boys like, so she can invite you to go shopping together, help her with suggestions, etc.
One of the common ways girls use at this time is to "show weakness" to attract your attention. In fact, she can do these things by herself or ask others to help, so why should she ask you? Of course she wants to create various opportunities to get close to the person she likes.
