The novelty in love will slowly fade over time, and the relationship between two people will become weaker and weaker over time. So how can you maintain the novelty in love and make your girlfriend like you more and more?
1. Establish a small secret code
This kind of tacit understanding is sometimes really good It’s easy to use. You know what I’m thinking and I know what you’re talking about. It instantly makes two people understand each other.
So when chatting with girls, we can also create a little secret code to make girls feel that you understand her. This secret code can be a joke between you, or it can be a catchphrase.
2. Have things they hate in common
As the saying goes, the relationship between girls is based on having a common enemy. Don’t think that two girls can play well just because they have a common enemy. Because they have the same hobbies, it has become their norm to discuss gossip and complain together.
If you want a girl to treat you as one of her own and to get closer to her, one way is to share the same things that she hates.
It can be a type of person, a behavior, or a thing. Anyway, it is to make her feel that you are on a united front to the outside world.
However, as boys, we still have to grasp this degree and not become like resentful women, nor speak ill of others.
It’s best if the girl mentions this annoying thing first, and you just happen to agree.
3. Take care of the people around her
Girls, when they encounter relationship problems, they are wavering. There is always time to talk to your besties.
Then if you make the people around her think you are very nice and say one or two nice words about you when she is wavering, you may get twice the result with half the effort.
So at this time, you need to know how to do something, just like buying her a big bag of snacks when you send her back. By the way, don’t forget to mention:
“Buy more If it’s enough, give it to the people around you.”
Who wouldn’t like a boy who is so considerate and emotionally intelligent?
But, you have to take care of the people around her. You still need to be careful and don't do something stupid like adding someone's best friend on WeChat before you're familiar with it.
4. Think before answering the question
In fact, we can find this phenomenon in life, If a person answers a question too quickly without leaving time to think, we will subconsciously think that the person is lying.
There is also the kind of gushing, talking and grabbing timeIn the same way, we will think that this person is unreliable when he talks so much.
In fact, the same is true when chatting with a girl. You really don’t have to rush to reply to her in seconds. These few seconds are not bad for anyone, but it will indeed change a person’s image of you.
So before speaking, you should straighten out your logic and think clearly about what should and should not be said.
