Fantasy is the source of pleasure, and the moment you fall in love with someone is the beginning of fantasy! When many people have a crush on others, it is easy to forcefully interpret the other person’s behavior and engage in self-sexuality. I came to the fantasy conclusion - she likes me!
So, the story suddenly turned into a two-way secret love. You thought you and the girl were in love, but when you confessed your love, It was only then that I discovered that all of this was your own fault.
The difference between two-way crush and self-love
There is almost light in the eyes, if a person likes your eyes There is a special look inside. (Two-way secret love)
Often look at each other, but in fact the other person just likes to observe the surroundings, appreciation of human performance art? (Sentimental)
Constantly approach him for various reasons, and even appear constantly Be by your side. (Two-way secret love)
One or two chance encounters, a casual remark, a normal behavior have to be over-interpreted, and I forcefully explain that she is interested in me! (Sentimental)
Always clingy Look for opportunities to get along with each other, and constantly test how the other person feels about you. (Two-way secret love)
All good feelings and likes come from your own fantasies. Nothing happens to the other person, but you yourself are experiencing chaos in your heart. (Sentimentality)
If two people have a mutual crush, there are a lot of topics they can talk about, because they both want to know each other better, and the chat can last for a long time. (Two-way secret love)
Every time you are looking for her, she ignores your topics, and her replies are always "Uh-huh", "Oh", "That's it"... (pretend to be sentimental)
Of course, some people hide their secret love very deeply. Even if you force the other person to tell it personally, the other person may not tell the truth. , words can lie, subconscious behavior cannot lie.
Faced with someone you like, if you can't guess what the other person is thinking, you won't be able to know the answer in a short time.
At this time, you should be friends with her directly, without any sense of need, just as a friend, and you should aim to be a "close friend" and be able to talk about your life ideals. During this period, you have to work hard to become an interesting person to her.
The following results are:
1) You will understand your sweetheart better, so that you can understand them more clearly Understand whether you are suitable to be lovers.
2) Your relationship will become more intimate, often more than a friend, but not a lover.
