Consultation: What is the psychology of a girl who is too arrogant? How to pursue a girl who is too arrogant
I recently discovered that the girl I like is more arrogant. What should I say? Because I have known her before Not quite enough, she asked me what I liked about her, and I said I liked her kindness and understanding. But her actual character is actually a bit unreasonable and a bit pretentious. She just felt like I couldn't be trusted. Finally, she said that she hoped to be separated for a while, so that everyone could be quiet.
I don’t want to stalk her, so just be quiet. After a few days, she actually contacted me on her own initiative. I felt hopeful, but I still pretended to be calm and chatted with her. , she said that I like to torture her. I used to say that I liked her very much, but now I can’t feel it at all. She obviously said she wanted to be separated for a while, and I just want to respect her intention. What exactly do you mean by what she said? What is the psychology of the girl Taizu? How do you pursue Taizu's girl?
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In fact, all the more competitive girls have one thing in common, It's just a lack of security. Because she lacks a sense of security, she likes to get her boyfriend's attention and attention through mischief. She said she wanted to separate for a while, and then she said she didn't feel like you liked her. This may seem contradictory, but it is exactly telling you with practical actions that she is making trouble unreasonably, allowing you to experience her true character, which makes no sense at all.
She is very willful, but you say that you like her to be considerate. Of course she will feel insecure. She is afraid that when two people quarrel in the future, she will not be able to stand her and dump her. What you want to do is definitely not to explain. Just explain. At this time, explanation is very pale. What you want to show is attitude and action.
For example, if she says she wants to be separated for a while, what you have to do is to hold her tightly, and then express how much you love her, how much you need her, and how much you cannot accept her leaving you, and tell her in an anxious mood. , you can't go anywhere.
When she said that you tortured her, it actually meant that you did not coax her, but obeyed her "meaning". You really just let the two of you be quiet for a while. She couldn't feel your attention. She said that you Torture her because she suffers from loneliness, loneliness and coldness.
Women are known to be duplicitous, especially little girls like this who like to make trouble unreasonably. You can't discuss things with her rationally, but use emotional methods to coax her.
The situation is not that bad anymore. She will blame you, but it is actually a request. I want to remind you that I need to be coaxed, so come and coax me. If she really wants to go away, then she won't complain to you. It's not very difficult to get her back. It's enough to meet her, express your feelings and thoughts towards her face to face, tell her how afraid you are of losing her, and tell her your emotions and feelings.
But in the future, you need to be mentally prepared. Falling in love with such a girl will take a lot of effort, because she will often make unreasonable troubles, and the hard times have just begun.
