When chasing a girl, don’t try to chase her by being shameless or kneeling. Many times, girls really don’t fall in love with you just because you are good to her, but because you are good to her. There are other expected values ??based on , but unfortunately many boys don’t understand this at all. Today, the editor will explain to you what is peacock thinking? How do boys use peacock thinking to chase girls.
What is peacock thinking
Peacocks spread their feathers when courting. Is this a way to show off their charm, right? You will understand the so-called peacock thinking after I tell this story: Suppose there is a rich second generation and a creative second generation, and they fall in love with a girl at the same time. Are boys in these two situations actually quite popular? Some girls To back up, or even to back up, right? But when they met a girl they liked very much, they started licking the dog mode. As a result, the more they licked, the more passionate they were, but the girl didn't want to pay attention to them at all.
So what does this mean? It's not that you just treat a girl unilaterally, or give her what you think is good, but the correct thinking should be that you are worthy of her in every possible way, and you can build attraction according to your needs. This is the core of peacock thinking.
How to use peacock thinking to chase girls?
Then there may be boys saying this, so how can I know the real needs of girls? There is no way to talk about how this potential attraction can be established, right? Let me give you an example:
For example, if a girl asks you what you are doing, I believe most boys’ first thought is how to reply will be a bonus, right? In fact, if you use this peacock mentality to pursue a girl, your first step should be to determine what type or personality the girl is.
Assuming that this girl is a career-oriented girl, then when the girl asks you, you should say that you were busy just now When it comes to projects or busy work, you need to indirectly convey that you and the girl are kindred spirits, similar people, and people you can talk to, rather than asking and answering, or saying like a report, "Oh, I was thinking about it." You baby, oh, you are eating and working like this. If you say these things before two people establish a relationship, it will appear that you are deliberately setting your position. And after you do this, it will actually be difficult for you to raise your position later, because you will be afraid that the girl will think Ah, why has it changed like this? I don’t feel like I used to, and then I distanced myself from you.
Some boys may say that the girl I like is more vain and loves money. How to break this? Then you have to ask yourself if your wallet can bear it first. Some boys may also say, the girl I like is a family type, or a sister type, aloof type, with a gentle personality, how can I pursue her. If this is the case, you need to come and talk to me about the specific situation and see how to solve the problem.
