Although love does not necessarily require marriage, I believe that most people still want to have a relationship with the purpose of marriage. So how should we have a relationship with the purpose of marriage?
How to fall in love with the purpose of getting married?
If you are pursuing marriage for the purpose, it can only be called a blind date. When you are in love, just fall in love and enjoy the joy and pleasure brought by the moment. You should not have any thoughts of purpose or want to obtain any benefits from the other party from a utilitarian perspective.
If you fall in love at the beginning, it means that they are determined to be together in order to marry you. On the surface, you are deeply moved and feel that the other person has a sense of responsibility and responsibility. In fact, it makes love less pure and potentially utilitarian. It is also a psychological burden and pressure on the other person.
The process of falling in love can help you get to know each other better, and slowly begin to deepen the personality of the other person. Finally, you can have a firm understanding of the family background and some detailed situations of both parties, and consider whether the other person can be a good partner. A person who can build a happy family is worthy of devoting his life to love.
A relationship with the purpose of marriage will end up either breaking up because of love, or getting married without real love, because love and Marriage should not be a pure purpose relationship. If you are pursuing marriage for the purpose, it can only be called a blind date. When you are in love, just fall in love and enjoy the joy and pleasure brought by the moment. You should not have any thoughts of purpose or want to obtain any benefits from the other party from a utilitarian perspective. If you fall in love at the beginning, it means that they are determined to be together in order to marry you. On the surface, I am deeply moved, but in fact, it is also a psychological burden and pressure on the other party.
People often say: Falling in love without the purpose of getting married is a hooliganism.
In fact, marriage that does not involve love as a process is a hooliganism.
Marriage is the result of love, not the purpose.
The debate topic in one issue of "Qi Pa Shuo" is: through a time machine, you find that the person you will be with in 10 years is not the one you like now. Should you pursue it or give up?
Ma Weiwei stood on the chasing side:
"Love is, there are obviously crocodiles in the deep pool, and someone has warned me, but I have to go there;
There are obviously vicious dogs in the yard, and I have been warned, but I have to rush in.
Because my princess is on the tower, and because my prince is under the water.”
