Falling in love is a process from acquaintance to falling in love. It needs to be taken slowly step by step. Taking too big a step can easily backfire. Let’s take a look at the stages a relationship must go through:
1. Acquaintance stage
As the name suggests , the acquaintance stage is the process of getting to know each other. The content of the chat at this stage is generally the exchange of basic information, and the establishment of the first impression is crucial.
2. Acquaintance stage
Once you have known each other and have a certain connection with each other, this is the process of getting to know each other. If you want to flirt or talk about ambiguity at this time, If you do, you will definitely be labeled as "a scumbag, frivolous, unstable, and unreliable".
This stage is still focused on establishing more sense of connection and connecting your lives so that you can have more topics to talk about.
3. Attraction stage
Many people mistake attraction as expressing their feelings, when they should clearly show their outstanding qualities. On the one hand, building attraction, commonly known as making the other person think you are great and have a good impression of you, is the stage where you start to express your feelings as soon as you disagree.
At this stage, you and the girl are familiar, but you are still just friends. If a friend wants to upgrade to a lover, the most important thing is the opportunity. Only when the girl thinks you are a good person, can you be with him? When the condition of "feeling good together" is met, it means that attraction is established.
4. Pursuit stage
Usually at this stage, the other person is attracted to you and has a good impression of you, and at this time, confessing to a girl will not seem abrupt.
But if a girl often chats with you and tells you about her troubles and troubles, and you have expressed your love and affection to you openly and secretly, but she pretends not to understand and refuses to say anything, even if she doesn’t agree with you. It implies that you buy her gifts and give her things. If you work up the courage to express your feelings but are ignored or blocked, then you can give up on her.
5. Ambiguous stage
Why does the ambiguous stage appear after the goodwill (pursuit) stage? Because Nowadays, in this era of feasting and entertainment, the fast-paced life has turned love into fast food, and the requirements for interest are getting higher and higher. If you want a girl to become your girlfriend, ambiguity is more effective than attraction.
When you show your love to the other person and the other person accepts you (it doesn’t have to be a ritualistic confession like “Be my girlfriend!”), it’s possible that you just pulled her in while walking. hand, she did not refuse, but her expression was very sweet), this is the right time to be "ambiguous".
6. Interaction stage
When you successfully pass "ambiguity" and your emotional intensity reachesAfter a certain value, you will officially enter the stage of dating. Here you need to do a good job in long-term relationship maintenance. Specifically, it is: running in and adapting to your personality, three views, and living habits. After these are done, You will have a long-lasting relationship.
