The word bestie was originally used to describe the good relationship between two girls, and generally refers to the friendship between women. But I don’t know since when, the term male best friend also became popular, which means a male friend who has a good relationship with a girl, and is very close to the girl. This makes many boys feel uncomfortable and think that girls who have male best friends cannot want them. Why is this said? Let’s analyze it for everyone.
If a girl has a boyfriend and gets close to her male best friend, boys will usually protest because they feel uncomfortable. This is normal. Generally, girls who really care about this relationship will respect their boyfriends and choose to keep a distance from their male best friends. But some girls use the guise of friends and say "just a good friend", "just an ordinary friend", "just a high school classmate" or "an ordinary friend we can talk to" instead, so that their boyfriends don't want to Interfering too much with one's own social freedom.
On the surface it seems to be the case, but when you study it deeper, it still doesn’t make sense. After all, friends of the opposite sex are friends of the opposite sex, but male best friends are not ordinary friends, they are close friends of the opposite sex. Just imagine, there is a small problem during your relationship. As the boyfriend, you have not gone to comfort your girlfriend, but her male best friend will usually come out in time to comfort her. At this time, the male best friend has great priority, although the girl verbally It doesn’t matter whether your best friend has a girlfriend or not, but can you really say you don’t care?
And best friends, to put it bluntly, often watch movies together, walk, eat, and have long-term heart-to-heart chats. These are things that only couples can do. It seems normal for girls and male best friends to do it together, but as your current boyfriend , can you not be jealous?
Most of the girls who have male best friends have average or good looks, and other conditions are okay, and some have average looks. Or worse, girls say they have male best friends, most of whom have unclear definitions and are always willing to do so. For example, some girls keep saying that they have more than a dozen male best friends. Most of them are undefined, that is, those who talk to boys and greet them politely when they meet on the street think they are male best friends. In fact, these boys, You really can’t be called a male best friend. These are just real friends of the opposite sex, and such male best friends will not cause boys to feel a sense of crisis at all.
Therefore, you should not marry a girl who has a male best friend. If you are already with a girl who has a male best friend and she still doesn’t keep your distance after you have told her your concerns, then it is better to break up. Because if a girl meets a boy she likes and has had male best friends in the past, she will not contact him. If a girl meets an average boy and has no male best friends before, there will also be male best friends who she has frequent contact with.
