Blind date is a matter of fate. Some people have been on blind dates many times but failed to get in love with each other, while others can see each other right once. So if they see each other right in the blind date and have a good impression of each other, how should we go further? What about development?
1. It is recommended that you first consider the source of your affection for her
We should understand it first, What is it about the other person that attracts you? Because when you first meet, you may have too high expectations for each other. As we get along later, a psychological gap will gradually appear, resulting in us liking each other but not being able to be together.
2. Love at first sight and admiration for each other are relatively rare in real life
In life, there are far more long-lasting love than love at first sight, and they are more likely to last for a long time. So when you know that the other person is interested in you, you should reject other people around you who you don't like. But you can ignore the person who has no feelings, because you can give yourself more opportunities to see whether the feeling is temporary or long-term.
3. Increase your own attractiveness
When we are chasing girls on a blind date, we should not be too direct. Don’t make requests too directly for your own needs. For example, if you want to invite a girl to dinner, don't ask her when she is free. Instead, tell her that you want to go to XX for dinner, ask her if she has any recommendations, or hint that you have no one to accompany her to see if she will take the initiative to invite you.
4. Increase interaction when chatting
When you want to chat with her, you can talk about some interesting topics and give the other party some room to talk. When going on a date, dress yourself up to look handsome. I believe that the girl who has a crush on you will definitely see the importance and efforts you put in her.
When pursuing a girl on a blind date, you must not be impatient, even if the other party has a crush on you. On the one hand, we need to show our attractiveness, on the other hand, we need to care more about her and take care of her feelings, so that she will slowly accept you.
