When getting along with girls, girls will subconsciously give boys some tests, such as holding a girl's hand for the first time, and girls will often subconsciously say: What are you doing? What to do in this situation?
First of all, our answer should not be too rational, but should convey a sense of confidence and that you understand why she asked this question. manner.
After all, if a girl is not interested in you, when you hold her hand, she will immediately withdraw her hand, but she does not withdraw it. At the same time, she is still asking you what you are doing, which shows that she is interested in you and acquiesces to this behavior.
At this time, our answer should be more confident, should show interest in her, should tell the girl that we are promoting the relationship, and should be in line with the girl's performance. The girl will understand her and think that you are not A straight man is a man with high emotional intelligence, very romantic and interesting.
Therefore, when faced with this question from girls, we have three ideas for answering:
1. There is no need to explain why we are holding hands and no logical reply;
2. Don't lose your frame and confidence in her problems;
3. You must continue to upgrade the relationship.
Because she knows you like her and she knows why you hold her hand, so she doesn't need you to tell her why.
If you still answer logically at this time, it will destroy the tacit understanding between you and her. You think she doesn’t know, you think she wants to know why you are holding her hand, and if you treat her as a fool, she will think you don’t understand her, you don’t understand women, and you are straight.
So when a girl asks such a question, you can answer like this:
Girl: What are you doing, why are you holding my hand?
Boy: Now It seems like I kissed you too fast~
When making such an answer, girls will usually blush and default to you holding hands, because such an answer will make the girl feel that you are still a confident man, and she will feel that you are still a confident man. She didn't see the wrong person, she just wanted this feeling of love. Moreover, such an answer is more tense, emotional and illogical.
Of course, after answering the girl’s question, you should not hold the girl’s hand all the time, because this will make you appear to be interested. With a strong sense of need and holding the girl's hand all the time, the atmosphere can easily become awkward and physical contact can feel uncomfortable.
The correct approach at this time is to hold hands for about 10 seconds, and take the initiative to let go after 10 seconds. This will increase the tension during physical contact while holding hands, which is not embarrassing and can make girls feel comfortable enough. It feels natural and comfortable to be in contact with you. And these 10 seconds are also the time to make your relationship more progress.Grasping this detail will give girls a better experience during physical contact.
