Common reasons why girls break up: You can’t give me the sense of security I want, so what else can you give me? You have nothing, including a house and a car. It can even be said that "security" is one of the love factors that girls value most. When chasing a girl or falling in love with a girl, you should first understand what a sense of security is and how to give your girlfriend a sense of security.
What is a sense of security?
The so-called lack of sense of security for girls is: on my birthday, you let me When I'm alone, you say you're busy when I want to talk, but you don't even know when I'm wronged! When I need you, you're always not there! When I express my feelings, you always don't listen.
What many boys think of as a sense of security is: a sense of security? Huh~ It’s just because I have no money.
In fact, security is: girls’ perception of their current life status, and girls’ expectations for future life.
If a girl chooses to date you, she must have experienced an unusual sense of pleasure when she is with you, otherwise she would not agree to be together. How to protect this sense of pleasure and let girls I think this sense of pleasure will not disappear in the future, which is a guarantee to give girls a full sense of security.
How to give your girlfriend a sense of security
1. Become a secure person
< p> A person who can give others a sense of security must first feel a sense of security himself. As a boy, your external image should not be too shabby, your physical fitness should be reliable, your clothing should not be too frumpy, your job should be secure, and you should be confident and modest. You will naturally be a secure person.2. Understand the reasons why your girlfriend lacks a sense of security
Starting from the key causes of the problem, if your girlfriend lacks a sense of security, first solve the problem from the source of her lack of security. For example, a boyfriend likes to look at other beautiful girls, which causes his girlfriend to lose her sense of security. Then the boy should restrain this habit, and his girlfriend's sense of security will naturally be guaranteed.
3. Keep a distance from the opposite sex
Girlfriends are more sensitive, so when you are in a relationship with a boy, When they are in a relationship, they will regard the boy as her possession and will not allow others to touch them. To use an old saying, let others snore and sleep on the side of the bed!
Therefore, when talking to a girl, After making friends, you need to always know how to keep a distance from the opposite sex and establish a sense of boundaries with other girls.
Only by taking good care of your girlfriend’s thoughts can you get along well with your girlfriend.
