1. Calm down
First of all, we need to stay calm. Don't be offended or affected by her bad words. Understand that she may just be out of control for one reason or another and needs your support and comfort.
2. Listen and understand
After she vents, give her enough space and time to Express your feelings. Listen to her complaints and dissatisfaction and try to understand her position. Don't interrupt or argue, as this will only exacerbate the conflict.
3. Apologize and admit your mistake
If you are indeed responsible for making her angry, sincerely apologize and admit your mistake. Express your guilt and regret to her and commit to correcting your behavior. Doing this will make her feel that you value and care about her.
4. Express care and love
Tell her you care about her feelings and care about her emotions. Express your love for her and let her know that you are willing to change and work hard for her. This will enhance her trust and sense of security in you.
5. Offer solutions
Once she calms down, try to work with her to find a solution to the problem method. Make suggestions or offer help to address the root cause of her anger. Show your responsibility and maturity as a boyfriend.
6. Give time and space
Sometimes, your girlfriend may need some time to calm down her emotions. Respect her needs and give her enough time and space to process her emotions. Don't push too hard or push her too hard, and let her know you'll always be there to support her.
7. Learn to communicate
Finally, it is very important to learn to communicate better. Avoid misunderstandings and conflicts through effective communication. Learn to listen, express your opinions and needs, and seek shared solutions. This leads to a healthier and stronger relationship.
When our girlfriend is angry and says dirty words, we need to stay calm, listen and understand her feelings, and take positive actions to relieve her emotions. By apologizing, showing care and love, offering solutions, and learning to communicate, we can build stronger and healthier relationships.
