Should I give up after chasing a girl who doesn’t reply? This is the confusion that many boys encounter when pursuing girls. Before we understand this problem, we need to determine why girls don’t reply to messages. Imagine that if a girl is interested in you, she will respond positively to you when you chat, and even if she cannot reply immediately, she will explain why. But if she's not interested in you, she might act cold and not even text you back.
In fact, when a girl doesn’t reply to messages, it often sends a signal to you: Chatting with you is really boring, and she feels that the things at hand are more interesting to her than replying to you. Therefore, if you continue to use chatting to increase your presence and harass the other party, the enthusiastic feedback from girls will only get lower and lower. It is even said that when a girl hates you to the extreme, she will choose not to reply at all and then block you.
So, if you can’t improve a girl’s favorability towards you and can’t reverse the current predicament, if the girl doesn’t reply to the message, it’s a hint that you give up. . However, there is nothing we can do when faced with this situation. We can try to change our strategies and learn to implicitly output value and create attraction. Don't regard chatting as the only way to pursue girls, but learn to attract girls through positive display of personal values. Starting from the first echelon of life, habits, interests, etc., gradually show your own value and make girls interested in you.
Of course, in actual operation, we need to judge whether we need to continue pursuing it based on the specific situation. You can try to freeze the relationship for a period of time to reduce the girl's resistance to you. During this time, fully understand the girl’s interests, life and habits, and lay the groundwork for the next chat. After you and the girl have a general understanding of each other's lives, you can gradually communicate in depth to understand each other's growth, outlook, feelings, etc. In this way, you may be able to grasp the girl's missing emotional needs and pay attention and make up for them in a timely manner, thus increasing her dependence and trust on you.
Following a girl without replying doesn’t mean you have to give up, but you need to learn to adjust your strategies to show your value and attract girls’ attention. In this process, we need patience and wisdom to constantly improve ourselves in order to finally win the heart of the girl we like.
