It stands to reason that well-educated boys should be the standard for many girls to choose boyfriends. After all, being well-educated means that the family is well-educated, and they are also okay in life and have reliable character. But why are there so many well-educated boys that cannot be found? Where is the girlfriend? Isn’t it an advantage to be well-educated?
Why educated boys can’t find girlfriends
1. Educated boys have high conditions for choosing girlfriends
An educated boy, his Upbringing and education will help him to overcome the most primitive human instincts to a certain extent. Translated into the vernacular, having a beautiful skin is not enough. Their tolerance for stupidity of the opposite sex may be much lower than you think.
Maybe he just communicates with the girl gently and gently on the surface, but in fact, by observing the exchanges between the two people and the information revealed by the girl, he has made a comprehensive and multi-level assessment of the girl's IQ and behavior. Assessment of the field. In other words, many girls will be passed by him invisibly. So it’s not that girls don’t like many well-educated boys, it’s that he doesn’t like many girls who like him, and the ideal partner he wants to find doesn’t appear, so he can only stay single, which makes you feel as if he is the one who found him. I don’t have a girlfriend anymore.
2. Educated boys are not very proactive
To be honest, educated boys are actually very attractive. Girls like it. But many well-educated boys tend to be sullen and have low emotional expression. In many cases, girls have no idea what they are thinking, and he is unwilling to reveal it to girls. In addition, in his daily life, he talks and laughs politely with girls. He usually doesn't refuse girls when they come to him, but he usually doesn't take the initiative to look for girls. Therefore, even if many girls like such an educated boy, they will give up because they cannot see through his thoughts. After all, you can’t feel it, so what if the other person likes you if you’re of the opposite sex? Or do you simply treat everyone around you as your friend? It’s not easy for girls to attack at this time. Wouldn’t it be embarrassing if they got the wrong idea? So it slowly faded away.
Moreover, well-educated boys are generally not very good at taking the initiative. Even if he likes a girl, he will not show it clearly. As a result, many girls cannot get it at all, and girls are not very good at taking the initiative. Maybe Two people who were originally in love just missed each other invisibly.
Summary: Being educated is certainly an advantage for boys, but it is an advantage that many girls appreciate. But while you are well-educated, you should also express yourself more (this may be contrary to being well-educated, which is why many well-educated boys are ignored), especially when you meet a girl you like. Girls will be attracted to you.
