If you confess to a girl you like, but she says she already has someone you like, in addition to rejecting you, she may also be testing you. So how can we tell what she really thinks?
1. See if the girl is very determined when she refuses
If the girl is determined and righteous Rejecting you clearly means that you have no chance, and there is no response to your pursuit of things. She has already told you not to pester her, so you just obeyed her because her dislike for you is real. . When a girl is chased by someone she doesn't love, she won't feel happy, but bored.
You bring her breakfast every day, pay attention to her when she is sick, etc. To you, this is a way to express your love, but from her point of view, it is because she hates you. , so everything you do is redundant, so much so that I just want to avoid you. When encountering such a thing, letting go immediately may still leave a good impression on her. Even if there is no fate, don't make her feel that you are too low. Loving someone doesn't mean giving up one's self-esteem, it's also good for yourself to let go immediately.
2. See if girls will reject your advances
When some girls refuse, Sometimes he will be ambiguous and hide his little thoughts. A girl who doesn't say she doesn't like you might not want to hurt your self-esteem and want to continue to be friends with you, or she might want to spend more time investigating you. Girls are worried about meeting me and feeling like they don't like them that much. Many boys are afraid that they will have no time to take care of themselves if they encounter feelings.
When a girl doesn’t say she has feelings for you, she wants you to observe her behavior to see if she is avoiding you or smiling to show you. If she doesn't reject your kindness to her and repays your kindness in the same way, then her rejection of you is just to spend more time training you, not that she really likes you.
3. See if girls will chat with you after rejecting them
Some girls are interested in you Although she rejected you, she is looking forward to keeping in touch with you. When a girl loves someone, she wishes she could keep in touch with him all the time. If you are her crush, being confessed by your sweetheart is the happiest thing. Even though she rejected you, if she asks you to chat more often and asks you why you don't actively seek her out? Then I have to say that her rejection is just a joke. She also hopes to have multiple confessions, because a girl cannot let herself act too cheap or too easy to chase, for fear of losing love.
It is said that girls are duplicitous, and practice has proven that this is true. Next time a girl says she has someone she likes, you can’t tell who the girl is.To test whether you really refuse, then refer to the above three points to compare and judge the girl's true inner thoughts, so as not to misunderstand yourself and miss a good relationship.
